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male
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anonymous
writes: I was on service overseas..At a time it was OK wd my gf..As time prolong from each other we decided to go seperate way..Now Im engaged wd the girl i meet overseas..Going back home after end of service. I meet at EX-GF at the common friend party and we talk about the past then got hook up that night.. As time goes by we talk then last week she told me that she 9 wks pregnant. I have to choice to which should I stay now. My fiancee that I was planning to marry and bring here in the states in couple months or my EX-GF that I got pregnant. I dont want to the abandoned my EX coz she pregnant.But I dont want to leave my fiancee also. I just need some advice and guidance. I know at the end, its my final decision and my life. Pls give me some advise to your fellow country men. Thank you..
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reader, karmagonebad +, writes (22 July 2009):
First of all...make sure that she really is preggers. As a woman I have had a few friends con their men into staying with them using this ploy. Then they will have a "miscarriage". Do what makes you happy but make sure that you take care of your child if there is one. If you are up for it give your ex a chance but you really need to get some solid proof first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): I don't think your fiancé would be too happy to hear you cheated on her with your ex and now she's pregnant. I doubt she will want to still marry you...that doesn't mean you have to get back with your ex either because she's pregnant if you're not happy support would be nice though. If you do still have feelings for your ex id suggest you work things out.
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