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Should I hang out with my friends more so I can drink again or just ditch that scene all together?

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Question - (22 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *rax writes:

so, i'm not sure if this is even the thing to be talking about, but here goes...

when i was younger, 14-16 i was REALLY heavy into drugs but when i met the right girl i slowed down and now i dont even really drink. but that's not the issue.

thing is, i keep getting urges on occasion, not every day, to smoke a little pot or get tipsy/drunk. my fiancee is having the same issues as me but we have completely different tastes when it comes to the only legal thing (well not legal for us b/c of age) which is drinking, she likes vodkas and i prefer tequila, but she hates the smell of it on me and on my breath

so should i hang out with my old friends a couple times a month and party with them or just completely ditch the scene all together and ignore my desires to drink/smoke?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009):

Your life will be so much better sober! I have been down both roads and the sober life is much better, once you get used to it.

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A female reader, mossy Ireland +, writes (22 July 2009):

hey!!

love i think you should completly give up th drugs for starters, drinking sociably is bad but binge drinking like actually wanting to get smashed is worrying especially for your health and you are so young..

i dont think you should go back to your friends because you have ben doing so well you might be forced into peer pressure... your doing great without them f you go back yu could loose everything even your girlfriend,do you reallywant that hun?

get bk to me if you have ne more problems..

mossy xx

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