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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): i am in the same situation just ask her for her phone number and talk it over the phone.dont be nervous because if she likes you she would be glad to give it to you.and the most part she is in my class so i see her everyday.the biggest thing is to look fresh. the other day i was wearing brand new nikes with a north fac and then she sent me a note saying i was cute
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reader, Alexiedos  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Thats great! All sex does is confuse situations further unless you are in love and the other person feels the same way does sex not complicate but make a relationship better :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): I'm really, very glad that you made this decision.. you have no idea how happy that makes me.. especially having to raise my daughter now, i want her to make good decisions and i don't want her to grow up in a world that is filled with bad influence and temptation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionu know what yall are right i think ill wait and make sure its right and yea i agree about the baby thing peace man
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): awe thank you so much! That is her angel mask though.. right now she refuses to lay anywhere but my chest, bobbing her head back and forth.. i cannot help but spoil her she is waaay too cute.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): SY...congratulations! What a beautiful baby, she looks so placid and contented!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol good point thank you but idk that all of u know how i feel i like love her to holy hell and i dont want her not liken me she wants what she wants
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): Well.. although we seem harsh and ride, our ultimate goal actually IS to help you. As generally older people who have both made mistakes and seen mistakes made, we know well and we are trying to help you to NOT make those mistakes. For instance.. I sit here next to a three week old. She beautiful and I love her, but was she intended? Well, not exactly. I am only 19. We are trying to help you love. We only want you to be careful and the way some of us put that thought into words can be mistaken for "not helping" but i don't believe any of us log in here, read questions, and answer according to our own experiences, for the purpose of not helping.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif i hear another thing about im too young im gonna get pissed we like each other alot and she just broke up with her boyfriend so we aint goin behind nobodys back y dont u make me grow up if u aint gonna help me then just dont write nothin thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Your willing to DIE from AIDS for her? That's big of you..
If she doens't like you anymore because of your penis, then she has some serious growing up to do. I think you will regret this decision in time. I truely do. And i sincerely hope that you will think it over deeply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyall were a real big help she just broke up with her bf! shes not ready to start datin me rite this second though idk
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think i know when im ready for sex i dont need yall to tel me that but thanks anyway an im just worried that if she thinks its small she wont like me no more sorry i didnt make that clear enough an i am aware of all the down falls of sex but i also am willin to make them a million times over for her an lol thanks for the posts appreciate it
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reader, S-Breeze13  +, writes (22 July 2009):
First of all, don't you want to lose your virginity when you have a girl that you can call yours? Secondly, I don't think that there is nothing you can do to make your penis bigger. If you really want to do this, you just have to be confident about your penis. If you aren't confident about it, then wait until you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Ok.. I have gotten myself together now..
1. sex is not something that you should look to to make someone like you more
2. If you're worried about how big your penis is, then you don't know enough about pleasure and sex to be having it
3. you're 14... enough said on that matter
4. She has a boyfriend??? Why can't she just break up with him if she obviously isn't all that interested in him???
5. You don't make your penis bigger. You're not even finished growing yet! you're 14... 14.
6. Do you know how babies are made? And how HIV, AIDS, STDs, STI are contracted?
7. Do you know what all those things can do to you?
8. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html READ IT.. i'm serious. read it at least 30 times. I want a ten page report by noon on Friday.
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): ooommmmggg.... oooh the imaturity.... oh honey i'm at a loss for words.. .
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Well, I don't think you should be worrying about the size to impress her, as you shouldn't sleep with her!
1. Because you're too young
2. Because she has a boyfriend.
This is a bad way for both of you to lose your virginity. If she wants to be with you she'll break it off with her boyfriend. And maybe then if you're in a trusting and loving relationship, you could think about losing it.
How ever, if you still want to go after her, I really wouldn't worry about the size, I'd worry about the consequences.
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reader, orlandblm8 +, writes (22 July 2009):
 I think you should be more worried about the fact on how she's already dating.
She just wants you for sex. It's not worth it.
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (22 July 2009):
Firstly not trying to be patronising, but trying to be realistic especially because of your penis worries, i think your way too young to 1. have sex and 2. emotionally be ready for the baggage that comes along with it, trust me. You cannot ever be happy about losing your virginity to a girl that has a boyfriend, especially if it isnt love. I'd wait until you are sure its love and if so she will leave her boyfriend for you and that will make it more special. I lost my virginity to a guy i thought i loved but he had a girlfriend. I know it was wrong but because i thought it was love it didnt seem as bad, and i didnt regret it as much as i would if i just 'liked' him. 2 years on i now would have rather lost it with my now boyfriend because what i have now i know is love and its so much more than what i thought i felt for the guy i actually did lose it with. But seriously youre only fourteen i was seventeen! Please wait until you are sure.
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