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writes:I ended my relationship because he started to distant himself from me then turned around and said that we was never together in the first place which is a lie as we did stuff that most normal couples would do, we spent most our time together then he went away for afew months then when he came back he started acting weird with me so i called it a day. I recently text him to tell him that i miss him and he replied saying that he still does care and even suggested that we do something together sometimes but just couldnt see me and him together long term but before he went away we where sooo close. I miss him sooo much and i know he does too i seen it in his face when he came to borrow something from my car...eeerrrmmmm but never actually borrowed anything or was it an excuse for him to come see me!! I havent heard from him since which was over a week ago. Is he waiting for me to make the next move? I dont know what do to do about it as i have very strong feeling for him and have NEVER felt like this towards any other guy before. He is younger than me and im starting to think that our age gap could be the problem, when in fact it was him that convinced me that age is only a number and just as i start to get used to the fact he suddenly has a change of heart... any advice as to what i should do about this. I can undrerstand if he wants to play the field abit as i have already had my fair share of fun but dont think that i can just be friend as i love him more than i have ever loved anyone else please help..x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you anonymous male...I am so glad that a male has commented on my situation as you will understand his behaviour as a male better than i do.. i have told him things that i have never shared with another and its the same with him, we were just too close for comfort... so you think i should make the next move then!! I will give it ago wish me luck and thank you once again..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi male anonymous, Thank you for your comment on my situation.. im so glad that a male has commented on my situation as you will understand what i mean as a male, so you think i should give him a call.. Im not normally this bothered when it comes to break ups i usually just move on but with him its diferent i have told him things i have never told another and its the same with him we were too close for comfort. So you think i should make the first move then..!! I will give it a go thanks again wish me luck..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi male anonymous, Thank you for your comment on my situation.. im so glad that a male has commented on my situation as you will understand what i mean as a male, so you think i should give him a call.. Im not normally this bothered when it comes to break ups i usually just move on but with him its diferent i have told him things i have never told another and its the same with him we were too close for comfort. So you think i should make the first move then..!! I will give it a go thanks again wish me luck..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks renee okc for your comment...The thing is he never once said that we werent together until i said i wanted to call it a day he was more into me than i was into him until he went away but when he came back he changed thats where i think your right that he may have cheated on me whilst he was away and his guilt could have got the better of him. You are right i dont have time for these minds games and yeah maybe i should just move... thanks again..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Anonymous, Thanks for commenting on my situation,... Thats a BIG NO to sleepig with him and thank the lord aswell to be fair i dont think he would use me for sex to be honest as he just aint like that, we havent slept together since he returned from his holiday. I agree that he might be affraid to commit himself as he is still young. If he is playing mind games then you are right i will not give himthe time of day as i see myself to be strong minded person and i can hold my ground if i have to. Thanks again..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Anonymous, Thanks for commenting on my situation,... Thats a BIG NO to sleepig with him and thank the lord aswell to be fair i dont think he would use me for sex to be honest as he just aint like that, we havent slept together since he returned from his holiday. I agree that he might be affraid to commit himself as he is still young. If he is playing mind games then you are right i will not give himthe time of day as i see myself to be strong minded person and i can hold my ground if i have to. Thanks again..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): This guy is playing some games with you. Did you two have sex the day he came over to borrow something?? cuz if you did he might just be looking for sex. Maybe he's affraid of having a girlfriend he's young he still wants to mess around. Please dont have strong feelings for this guy you might get hurt. My opinion would be if you are looking for a committed relationship don't give him the call if your just looking for friends with benefits call him. Good luck.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (22 July 2009):
Now if he has already told you that when you thought you were dating you weren't and is making it sound like it was all in your head why would you want to date him again. He probably left and ended up cheating on you and it was his guilt that made him treat you the way that he has. If you want my advice i would say move on because no one has time to play mind games, and he is probably getting off on the fact that your still interested in him it's like a game of cat and mouse girl do yourself a favor and rid yourself of the mind games and find a good man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): you definitely need to make the next move no doubt hes waiting for you, but its in your hands
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