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26-29,
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writes:Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he started flirting with me and putting his arm around me and holding my hand and I started to like him alot, and I really think he likes me back. So I asked him one day if he had a girlfriend and he said yea, and I was crushed but I tried to play it off. But then later he was flirting with me alot and he even asked me for a kiss (I didn't give it to him though). Now he walks everywhere with me and follows me everywhere we go and we're pretty close and he's so funny and cool but I don't know what to do because I really like him and I think he likes me back, but I don't want to break up his relationship because I'm not that type of girl. What should I do?
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reader, Fifteen  +, writes (23 July 2009):
hey im in the same situation. if he really likes u he will leave his gf for you, not play u both. good luck.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 July 2009):
Look, your really young... here's a reality check... at your age the intent of "dating" is that you get out and meet several young men and get experience interacting, talking and spending some time together. The idea of exclusive dating at such a young age is relativly new, and IMO deprives you from learning about guys and how to form opinons about your ultimate goals and desires.Ideally, you'd be able to see 2 or 3 guys dating a few nights a week w/o any commitments. When you get older you can narrow the feild, but the idea that you'd date one boy for several years before you in your 20's could prove problematic later in life.My advice, is date around (keep it innocent, I'm not suggesting sleeping around) and enjoy yourself. Give it 3 to 4 years and then thing about comitting to one guy at a time...
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reader, Bam16 +, writes (23 July 2009):
There is really only 2 ways to do this ethier u get away ( It will be hard speacially if u like him alot). Or u can fight 4 ur happiness and ask him if he really likes u 2 get with u n break up with his girl( if so make sure he really likes u too, k) good luck
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