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anonymous
writes:I work with an ex who cheated on me. I walked away caused no trouble and was hurt.It appears the other man didn't work out.During this time I have made every attempt to be civil and polite with my ex.But what I find is one day she will make the effort to give me a smile, the next just an odd or weird look like I have really p*ssed her off?.So I'm never quite sure where I'm at in terms of the past being the past.I don't react much eitherway, I do want to say hey why the hot and cold mood thing, but I have maintained neutral.I feel she wants me to react in some way but I'm not sure why she wants a reaction out of me, I feel as if she won't allow the past to be the past as though by doing the hot and cold she is keeping something going ?Can I get views on this ?
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reader, smeedle +, writes (22 July 2009):
 got to agree with emilysanswers, and would like to add that working relationships when they end are hell.
She may also have regrets and maybe hormonal.
Stay out of her way, smile even if she doesnt respond and be yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): im fourteen an my ex is the same way kinda she says she loves me stil one day an the next she gets pissed i guess she stil likes you an wants yall to work out idk
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 July 2009):
Urgh, this is why I never date people I work with.
She is probably feeling guilty and having a hard time getting over you when she has to see you every day.
Don't forget that just because she cheated, it doesn't mean she didn't care about you and want to be with you. Otherwise she would have dumped you and run off with him that way.
I bet people at work have been asking for the gossip on why you two broke up and that can't be great for her to deal with.
She's going to take it all out on you some times so just stay dignified and carry on.
She'll get over it all eventually, or hopefully get a job somewhere else instead.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Starlights +, writes (22 July 2009):
 your ex gf sounds like she still has issues with you.
maybe it iritates her a little u walked away instead of trying to make her stay with u.
i would just ignore her behaviour & be civil to her, there is no point to cause strife if u both work together.
good luck!
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