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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months now and hes become totally obsessed with me.I constantly get txts asking "wuu2" or "ily so much babe x" and its like really freaking me out....at first it was like aww now i find myself ignoring the txts and him saying "did you get my txt earlier?" and im like ermm no and sends it again so im like ugh!.I really do love him but this clingyness is starting to freak me out.Plus when im with him all i want to do is have fun and a laugh but its constant kisses and hugs and i love yous and its starting to get me annoyed.I dont wanna upset him or make him feel i dont like him if i say smet cos i do, i feel myself falling in love with him but i no that if he carries on ill fall out again and it will end cos its starting to suffocate me.help me?.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 July 2009):
You need to talk to him. He's obviously not felt this way before so he's just overdosing on love and hormones as he can't handle it.
It's going to be not nice and he probably will be a little bit hurt at first because you are going to burst his perfect little pink love bubble that he's living in.
But you just need to tell him you are feeling suffocated and it's pushing you away. Tell him how you fell for him because you had so much fun hanging out and not just snuggling up all the time. He'll be funny about it for a day or two and then things will get better.
Talking calmly through problems like this is a big part of making a relationship work. If you can take a breath and say in a calm way to him "can we talk about something?" and take his hand and reassure him you want to be with him but that you feel suffocated... then you will be stronger as a couple.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): chill try to tell him to back off without being too mean
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