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writes:Please listen. I really need advice i have nobody. :( Hello :) i dont have many people to talk to, so sadly i have to resort to the internet. :( I hope you can help me and give me advice on what to do. :)Heres my story.i recently moved here and i dont know "everybody" i have only 1 close friend. i have maybe 10 people that get under my skin and i can not trust them with anything, they step over me (for example: some of them ask me to do their homework almost everyday. they are really mean) and i hate this new school. :( i wish i could move back to my old school. ive been here for almost a year, and i am basically set on this group of friends. there is no way i could be friends with anyone else. everybody is so mean. if i could name my "clique" i would say that i am popular. but not the prepss. i am pretty and i am a cheerleader. i have dated a few guys.So, my "bestfriend" is being a hypocrit, and backstabbing, and really getting on my nerves. she says that she hates these people and i say im in a fight with someone, she says she will not talk to them. and guess what? she comments on their picture on facebook saying oh how cute we need to hangout asap. but really i love my bestfriend. we have had our really gooooood times. It all started going down after she was dating this guy. I will be abstinent until im married. but she actually got fingered by her boyfrind. i toook it WAY seriously! i try to talk to her about it.. but it takes this other girl to tell her the exact same thing and then she all of a sudden listens. Well, please help me.. heres a few questions..-what can i do to get through to my bestfriend?-how can i build better relationships to my "accaquantinces"-how do i be happpy when i have nobody to talk to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Before answering i would like to appreciate your decision about not having sex before marriage. . . Lets start from last question, to be happy you don't need other people as a must. If you want advice you can go to your parents. parents are the best friends. Because they would always be with you not for any gain, not for any personal achievement. So if you don't have anyone to talk to why don't you go to your mother? And for your free time you can find activities that you enjoy. . . For 2nd and 1st question, i think you care for your best-friend, but your best-friend and others don't. It happens when you are a newcomer to a group who have been together for a long time. I have endured it in my own life (as i had to change my school and college frequently due to my father's job ). But i have gotten used to it. Now i don't care about what other people think,or how they treat me. I work my own way. I try to help them if i can or if they want it. Though i maintain a friendly relationship with all, i don't expect much from them. I choose my own way. . .Hope that helps. . .
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