I told him I was a virgin, then he stopped texting me?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So there is this guy and he is in the same organization as me at our university. We would never talk to each other mainly because we couldnt,we had to be serious and we were all busy doing things. After we went on break i noticed that he was liking pictures of me on facebook(we are facebook friends) so i started liking some of his photos just to play along and get his attention. It did eventually he sent me a message on chat saying" hey hows it going?" i was pretty excited and we talked for 30 min but then moved on to texting since he didnt want to be on facebook the whole time and he gave me his number( i think it was an excuse to get my number) we texted each other for several hours and then said goodnight. Then a couple of days later he texted me saying how has my christmas been going? I was excited again and we texted agin for several hours. It was fun we had some laughs. I also realized he liked me because he was surprised a nice cute girl like doesnt have a boyfriend those were his exact words. And he also asked me if i was a virgin which caught me off guard but i confronted him about and he said he was curious and said i didnt have to answer it. I answered it i am a virgin but told him that we should talk about something else. He said ok and he was sorry. But then on new years i texted him and told him how it was going he said boring and then we started chating a bit and asked why he wanted to know if i was a virgin and he said because he was curious. im not mad about it i was just confused which i told him and he said he understood and i told him i wanted to make it clear im not those type of girls who give out any info to any guy and he said that he knew that. So we talked about something else but he seemed uninterested in the conversation so i asked if i was bothering him and he said not at all. So we talked alittle more and then we said goodnight. This conversation was just like half an hour not like our usual conversations. He hasnt texted me in a week but its not like we text everyday he usually texts me a week after each text. But i text him little stuff like i need help on something for our program and he gladly helps me and texts me back. He tells me that i can always text me if i need help on anything. Then yesterday we saw eachother in person for an event in our organization. I was so nervous when i saw him so i wouldnt look at him at all and besides everyone has to be professional in any event. I would pass him and wouldnt look at him but i felt bad afterward. I dont want him to think im not interested in him when i am and i dont think he knows i actually am. But he didnt talk to me at all but you have to know he is higher position than me in the program so he has to be serious. I just want to know if he is still interested in me?

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