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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've not got much confidence so I go to this place called mind, other people go their with there problems aswell. I'm nearly 26 and when I first meet people they say I dont look my age, well that I look about 18/19. Well there is a 35 year old I like, and one of the staff at their says he dont want to be in a reletionship with anyone, but she said "why dont you ask him if he wants to go for a coffee, or for a meal or to see a film as friends. I dont really see my dad, so I'm not sure if he's old enough to be like my dad as I dont see my father. as the women who I spoke to about it, shes 50 and theres a 10 year age difference with her husband as hes 40. Jason,he is really nice, gets me talking to help with my confidence, and is very funny, makes everyone laugh. so i dont know whether to suggest that to him or not, unsure. i would like to.thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): It's a smart thing to just work on your confidence factor and be yourself and you will get asked out by someone who has real interest. Steer clear of those who don't want relationships and don't initiate anything with you outside any setting you are in with them. I can see you comparing this to married couples and that can only mean you don't pay attention to the information you have: doesn't want relationship and is not initiating anything. This spells disappointment at the least and heartbreak for worst case. I worry you will give the same lapse of attention if he tells you he just likes you as a friend and ignore it.
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