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With a baby on the way, my relationship with my BF is headed downhill

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Question - (8 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a boyfriend for one year and We knew eachother for 6 years.

We have a baby girl on the way

we were doing fine until he moved in with me and e started fighting it was a never ending battle.

I dont know what I should do

he calls me names such as a slut a whore.

I know im hormonal but I dont deserve that at all

He always asks me if my feelings are still there and I cant answer him because I'm not sure if my feelings are still there What should I do ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you everyone it really opened my eyes

I hope if i write more you could give me more adivse thank you

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A male reader, Loveless06 United States +, writes (8 January 2011):

Sounds to me like he is nowhere near ready to be a father and he's looking to break up with you by any means. he shouldn't be calling you names at all, he should be treating you like a queen since you are carrying his child. or it could be that he's just nervous bout the whole thing. communicate with him about it. and don't blame you for your feelings not being there. he shouldn't be a douchebag bout it. good luck to you.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (8 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntGee, what a great boyfriend you have.I'm presuming the baby is his, so I don't see how he can call you a slut or a whore.

I really don't know what your boyfriend's deal is, because you're too vague about him in your post. My suggestion is for one of you to move out. He doesn't have to live with you in order to help take care of the baby. From the looks of it, it doesn't sound like he'll be helping much at all. If you have a place of your own, go back and live with your parents or a relative. Or if you are living with your parents, kick him out. Either way there needs to be time spent apart.

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