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Everyone calls me gay because I haven't gone through puberty yet!

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Question - (8 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *orfolk'N'Good writes:

hi, everyone i need some help, my male friends and my family think i'm gay. the females dont though which i confusing.im 14 and starting to get more female attention.my voice hasnt broken and i get alot of stick that i dont deserve.i want to cry, but i cant cause the boys will see this as a gay act and use it against me.the girls call me a pretty boy, the other boys hate me for this!im not gay, i never want to look at another man like that. but i respect gay people, because we are all the same. i wouldnt normally worry about this, but it makes me feel down.

Why am i being called gay?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011):

Don't worry about it buddy, worry about impressing the girls not the boys, I went through puberty late and got teased for not having hair on my legs or under my arms or anything, but within a year they all had pimples and gross hairy legs and those creepy mustaches and grossed all the girls out. And about the teasing thing I'm pretty sure everyone goes through that through highschool, it gets better as you move up the grades

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A male reader, Sandro United States +, writes (9 January 2011):

Don't sweat it bro. If chicks dig you and other dudes say you're gay it's cause they're lacking in confidence about thenselves and consider you vulnerable. As far as crying goes, just cry with a girl or somewhere safe where you won't be judged. Everybody crys. It's human.

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