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writes:So, i was talking to this guy for a month. Meaning we both liked each other, but had yett to commit exclusively. And then right before he was going to ask me out a girl asked me on facebook if i was also seeing him and claimed that she had kissed him the day before she messaged me. I asked him all about it and we got it all straightened out. I ended up believing that she wasn't his type... (Shes dark headed he only dates blonds. She was crazy (she gets psy evals every two weeks). And he had recently bought me expensive jewelry. So i believed him completely. But i said do it again and its over. So if you where whatever but it stops now. and everything's been pretty good. But he he had told me the other day that his brother had heard from someone that he was at a girls house in his hometown. He lives outside of town. So his brother had told his mom and told her to take away the keys to his truck and stuff. He told me this was untrue because if he was at a girls house he would have been in my hometown. Which i believe. So, he has lost his cell, ipod, and truck. Which means i have no way to talk to him. At all. Then, my ex decided that he wants me back. So, he told me that my boyfriend is always talking about having sex with some other girl that lives about 45 mins from his house. Which again i do not believe this. Then a guy told me today that he know that my boyfriend had made out with another girl (The one that i had talked about earlier.) I just can't seem to believe it. This guy has really let his guard down with me. He was cheated on and told me openly about it and cried on the phone as he told me. So, i guess that i just can not see him doing that to me because he really seems to very touchy about how this girl crushed him when she cheated on him. I'm just not sure what to do. Because this guy told me this... So idk if i should let it just go, it was the past,if he made out he did. This was in the PAST. So a few weeks ago and technically we were not official but he knew better. I did not ask the guy who told me this when they had. I'm not sure when i can talk to him next, but should i bring this up? Or what should i? And this thing that happen well it happened three weeks ago. So it is kinda old new. But, i just don't know....
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
 You got a point, this all happened before you guys are official. Another thing is you're hearing it secondhand from apparent sources in which I would be leery about.
As long as you don't have trust issues because of these alleged situations then I would just brush it off as being false. Which it really is, these people don't have any physical proof and they're nothing but accusations.
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