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writes:It's been almost 3 months now since my fiance decided to abandon me and my baby who is now 8 months old. The first 3 weeks were strenuous I even went for 3 sessions of counselling to ease the pain. My fiance cheated on me and got to be insensitive about the whole thing. We were not happy for a while and then I discovered he was seeing someone else. I took strain and felt like my world was crushing. I even prayed and hoped he can come back so we can work on our relationship to build our future. A month ago the guy I have been chatting with on facebook for more than a year has entered my life. We have more than 30 mutual friendsd on fb. It turns out the guy is close friends to most of my friends. After several personal chats we thought we might be good for each other and decided to meet privately. He booked me a flight to visit him and we had the 3 nights of passionate love making...and we chat to each other several times a day just about anything. The guy got divorced in 2008 and hasd 2 kids that stay with ex-wife. He told me he got divorced after he caught his wife in bed with another man so the story goes. Its been 10 months since he last had sex and he says he took time from dating and is willing to have a steady relationship. So we are in this now. He is wonderful, sensitive,driven, open to communication-everything my ex-fiance was not. His job is sending him to live in my city so we say we will officially date when he finally moves, which is end of next month. Do u think this is a rebound relationship? Can we be right for each other under the circumstances? I thought I was going to wait a little longer b4 dating again.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (8 January 2011):
 Few questions, why are waiting to make it official that you're dating? Why not now?
You got off on the wrong foot by having sex when you just met him, I mean you really don't know this guy at all. The last time he had sex was 10 months ago, I'm hoping it wasn't with his ex wife. Really, it's been 2 years since he's been divorced, however the only way this would be a rebound relationship is if he wasn't over his ex wife.
I suggest you take this relationship slow and be a little cautious.
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