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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a boyfriend who I have 2 kids with. We dont have anyother kids between us. My boyfriend is a "street" hustler and just recently quit dealing. However he didn't save any money and is broke. He doesn't help me pay any bills (which are very high). He does watch the kids when I go to work or school. He doesn't clean a lot. He doesn't show a lot of affection either. I am tired of cleaning on my own, paying all the bills and there are other men who would like to date me. Should I stay in this relationship or move on. By the way we have been together for 6 years.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (9 January 2011):
This is not good. My advice to you would be to leave him or help him get a real job, or show him how to get loans so he can go to school. If he is not willing to go to school for something then move on.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 It's not up to us to decide for you. You need to take a look at your relationship and see what you feel is best, not only for you but for your children as well.
If you're already at the point where you want to leave you might as well. It's just that you have kids with him, and then it's no longer about just you and what you want. It's about them as well.
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