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writes:okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin (I am also a virgin) and a lot of me beleives her because she's the most innocent and sweet person I know, and no i'm not going to marry her just for the sake of having sex with her. also my penis is 5 1/2 inches long, and she says my size is absolutely perfect, and that she'd be really scared of it being any bigger, is she telling the truth for both situations? and if I stretch her out, won't she want my penis to be bigger? and she says I'm the only guy she finds attractive and that every guy in the world is ugly except me, is this possible?? but mostly, I'm worried I won't make her happy, a woman's opinion would be very greatly appreciated..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): There's nothing wrong with your size. Be grateful you have a girlfriend who cares about you and you are happy.
FYI, you won't "stretch her out" after having sex with her. Women's bodies don't work that way.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (8 January 2011):
 She won't have any other experience to compare you to. She will feel that sex with you is just how sex feels. Besides that though, you can't please a woman even with a HUGE penis unless you learn how to use your mouth and hands. Put in the time and effort to push her buttons and the size won't even matter (not that you're small anyway. You're just average.)
But she's likely nervous and glad you aren't packing a monster! That would intimidate the poor girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Size does not matter to all girls. I don't care what size my husband is because I love him and I am sure that your girlfriend is telling the truth. Everything will be so much more special for you two because you are each other's firsts. Also she doesn't have any one else to compare you to so you don't have to feel insecure. I also think that your girlfriend is telling the truth when she says that all the other guys are ugly except you because that is how I feel about my husband. In my eyes everything about his body is perfect and nobody could come close to him. If she says everything is fine then I would not try to change it or keep asking because she might get annoyed. Well I don't know her so maybe not but I do know that my husband always tells me he should buy those pills you see on t.v. to make the penis bigger and I tell him no because I like his size and I am a little worried that he might actually do it one day. I don't want him to be any bigger. So just listen to her. Good luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 January 2011):
 Here's the thing if you're her first she will be happy with whatever you got. It's not like she's going to take out a tape measure to make sure you're accurate. Plus, she has no other penises to compare it to. Girls have to guesstimate size when they're faced with the real deal...usually we could care less and are ready to get down to business. (Unless of course your size if compared to a weenie cocktail, which it's not) So yes she's telling the truth.
The other comment, she could very well be telling the truth, but it also sounds like a confidence booster. Try to not read into what she says and just go with the flow.
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