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female
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anonymous
writes:Hey everyone..I am a 19 yrs. Old girl and i have a bf 21 yrs. Old. It's been 2 years with him in a relationship. He used to be very loving and caring earlier now everything has changed. I had a fight with him just nw and i broke up with him. I dont know if i did right or wrong..i just know he has changed a lot. He looks and talks to only pretty girls in front of me and otherwise also. He says i am pretty too. But i feel jealous when he talks to other pretty girls with smiles all the time.Anyway, this time..we were texting each other and we both were very happy whole day, when suddenly he said he wants to be a romantic protagonist of a movie. To this, i felt disappointed, dont know why.. I said i cant watch you romancing with other girls..:( to which, he changed the topic immediately..and didnt answer me. I became angry and didnt reply. Later on, he slept without saying good night to me and left me alone, worrying about sharing my bf with others.. This made me more upset.Rather than saying sorry, he started shouting on me today and argued as well. I put off the phone and he then kept on calling.. I didnt pick because he was rude towards me. Shouting at me like hell. Then, he texted me..saying he has sliced his palm and now he wont disturb me anymore. He always does this thing. Whenever i dont listen to him, he blackmails me by doing such things. I dont like all this so i texted him: do whatever you want to but dont tell me. After that message, he didnt call or text me.. Now what should i do.? I love him and he loves me too. But i dont like his flirty nature. What do you think? Is it over reaction? Or i did a great job in dumping him.? Please help. I am really worried. Thanx for any help.!Regards..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): its a hard choice but you have to be honest with your self will you ever be happy with him the way he is now anwill he b happy, sometimes lve isnt enough i no its hard but you seem to both want different things and he int willung to give up what he craves which is a little insensitive towards your feelings.what relationship u have left is being torn apart by a lot of anger nd resentment on his part, mayb he will get it out of his system but you got to think about what you need out of a relationship is he providing it?
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