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male
age
41-50,
*ony
writes:Is it ok if a guy whom I suspect of having an emotional affair with my wife text her addressing her 'my dear...'?? She told me he is interested in her but she is not. And she continue meeting him. Is it alright for her to meet him knowing his motive?? She is saying he is her good customer(of her restaurant) and handling him wiselly for her business. But I don't feel comfortable about this. What shall I do?? I'm trying just to believe her and watch carefully.I have told her I want to meet him but he doesn't like that.
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (8 January 2011):
No it's not ok for him to say that to your wife. She did something to lead him on and it's not right. I don't think you should meet him. Just pay closer attention. This seems like it could get a little sticky.
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reader, cat lady  +, writes (8 January 2011):
 Never mind what HE likes. Did your wife marry you or him? If you are not comfortable with this situation, investigate it as you see fit; who has that right if you don't? Your wife may be telling you the truth but if so, she is using bad judgment that can cause no end of trouble later. Is she very young and inexperienced with the public? People can be VERY hard to get rid of when they think you've led them on - even when you haven't. You surely have a story or two to tell her about that. 'Stalking' is rampant these days. What if that guy is a nut?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): i would be reluctant to believe her if i was you. she sounds very much like a cheating wife.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (8 January 2011):
If by what you say,it has gone beyond being a customer.How did he get her number? She needs watching very closely.
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reader, ShiShisAdvice +, writes (8 January 2011):
 You are right, your wife is making the biggest mistake in business to falsely be a "friend" to a customer. It WILL blow up in her face. She led him on, and it is never worth it. Someone crossed the line here, and I point the finger at her. She is the manipulative one here. He will respect her more if she looks him dead in the eye and says your text is hurting my marriage. He must be an older man, and she is despicable for leading him on. And no, you should not "meet" him. When your wife goes out to work and if she dresses provocatively that is YOUR fault. You let the show horse out of the barn, why didn't you think someone wouldn't try to catch her and put her in his barn???
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