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writes:my boyfriend has recently been saying things that i dont really agree with and they've been upsetting me quite a bit. Every friday i go to his house after school, but on fridays he has rugby training until 4, so like a usual girlfriend i go up to the supermarket and walk around for an hour then at 4 i go back to meet him. But for the past few weeks when i get there he is still training or just talking to him mates, so i end up waiting outside in the freezing cold with nothing to do up to an hour and a half, and this has happened about several times now. So i said to him that i didnt like waiting, its not fair on me, then he started saying how i wasnt respecting him, but all of my friends that i asked said that he wasnt respecting me, not the other way round, the whole thing has left me really confused, am i just being silly or have i actually got a point? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Go home*
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reader, AshyCole +, writes (9 January 2011):
 well i think regaurdless of you not respecting him or not he shouldnt leave you out in the cold like that, thats just mean. maybe you should just not go there for awhile. if he asks, just say 'well i really dont feel like being left out in the cold AGAIN." but say it casually, start ignoring what he does to you thats mean and give him less hugs, maybe just kisses on the cheek instead of on the lips. if hes worth your time he'll realize somethings up and actually sit and talk with you about it. after that point its p to you what to do.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
Did he ask you to come and wait for him at his rugby practice? If so, then yes that's disrespectful to make you wait out in the cold. Now, if he never asked you to, then you have no case against him. That's something extra doing on your own, when you should just probably wait till he calls you when he's finished then go over to his house.
Either way, I suggest you don't waste time walking around the supermarket for a hour, and waiting in the cold for him. Go him and wait for him to call you, or just wait to see him Saturday because he seems to be busy on Fridays.
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