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writes: Hi I'm so confused and really need some help. My bf of a year just went out the shop and I stupidly looked through his phone. I've had plenty of opportunities before but never took them because in allHonestly, I trusted him. The same still goes, It was just an impulsive moment and I was curious. I looked through his pictures and of course he had porn which doesn't bother me in the slightest, he's only human and I watch porn too. However what did bother me is he had pictures of a girl I knew and am friends with. She's in her underwear (she does a veryyyy small amount of 'modelling') and Its not a picture that's on the Internet or her fb so I'm guessing she sent him it. He also has pictures of this girl I know from uni and her friend dressed slutty. A picture of a girl in her under who I'm guessig sent this to him and another girl in her bikini with sun cream all over her (to appear like come) none of these are photos that would come up on google or that you would find on porn sites, they're picture from friends etc. I'm really really confused and don't know if I should confront him ??? I know it was wrong to look through his phone but whatever it's done and if he looked throughMine he would find NOTHING. I really thought I was set with this guy but this has put a spanner in everything and how I feel. I'm with him now hahaha and I can't even be normal withHim. I just need some advice :(
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reader, Worried64  +, writes (9 January 2011):
I would say if it was porn I could understand that too but even then it suxs but men are only human But because its from other chicks and they have sent them to his phone them maybe u should call it quits cause thats not cool!! I found pic's of porn on my partners phone and I lost the plot but he made me realise that he is just looking and not touching but if he had pics of girls I knew or not from porn sites he'd be gone no doubt!!!
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