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writes: I am having an affair with a 33 years old married woman. She have two kids, she says her husband don't make love to her. She finance the whole affair with her husbands pocket money that he gives her, as I am just a poor student with a year left in university and can't really finance this affair. I dearly loves her and wants her to be my wife. She knows it, she said she would leave her husband. But there is no time range. She said I should graduate first, I should be more grown up first and I have a feeling that the lists never ends.She is not european citizen, I am. What should I do? Can I trust her that she will leave her husband for real? And be with me for the sake of love?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 January 2011):
 If am honest with you no you cant trust her to leave her husband i dont think she will leave him. If she was going to leave him then she would have done it by now but no he is her security and she will stay with him as he is giving her money and taking care of her and her two children she is probably just thrilled that you are interested and she is using you for her own thrills.
Its never good to get involved with someone that is married as it ends in tears most of the time. If you are really wondering how serious she is about you then sit down with her and say to her you dont want to be second best anymore either she picks you or her husband as she cant have both and see what she has to say to that.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): I really don't think you should get your hopes all up. She may not leave right then and their. And if her husband isn't givin her love then she must still be with him for the money. Just be careful. so you dont end up heart broken
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reader, jel  +, writes (8 January 2011):
Is it just sex for her? .
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