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I want to become closer friends first before a relationship!

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Question - (8 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2011)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, *ushroomcello writes:

So i recenetly told the love of my life i like him and he said he likes me too. Were both in the closet (its a secret kinda relationship) almost all my wishes came true when he said he liked me but we dont talk that much. We don't really go out together. were sophmores in high school. We aren't the closest of friends but i want to be closer. Hes with other people i dont know allot so its hard to get a good conversation in. I just want to become closer friends first. How can i do this now that he told me?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (11 January 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony auntWell... if you want to be closer/better friends... you gotta make it happen. Hang out with him and his friends... or invite him to hang out with you and your friends. Ask him if he wants to study together - even if you're not in the same class(es) you can still do your homework together. If you do have class(es) together - see if he wants to work on an assignment/paper or study for a test. Hang out at the mall, go see movies, sporting events, concerts etc. It's really the only way you're going to get to know him better.

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A female reader, Secretlife Congo +, writes (8 January 2011):

Just try to commincate more with him. I think yall should come out of the closet. Its nothing wrong with the way yall are. Talk a little more with him and spend a little more time with him. I hope you take a little of mii advice. Sorry I couldn't give you more of it.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (8 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntDo you have his mobile number? If so then text or call him and ask him would he like to meet up more often just to hang out and get to know each other. You know were you stand with him now so let him know that you would like to get to know him more and spend time with him.

Goodluck.

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