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*utterfly18
writes:well my problem is i'm too shy, especially when it comes to guys (that i like)because there's a guy that i like for almost more than a year, we're both in college and he likes me too. i mean he made it very clear that he wanted to talk to me and he was following me all the time, but everytime he tried to do some move, to approach me, i kind of freaked out and blushed. One day he sat next to me in class, so i felt extremely nervous and was all blushing and i actually sat somewhere else, when the lecture was over, (i dont know what i was thinking, but i just was so afraid, and i thought that i was going to say stupid things, if he talked to me. And i'd look like a fool.I really like that guy so much and i can't stop thinking about him, and just wish to know if there's a way to let him know how i feel about himI'm not sure, but i think that he might be a little shy himself and i really feel nervous when hes around and i can barely breathe so GUYS does he know that i'm shy? And that's why i ran away, or would he just think that i'm not interested? Is it too late now to do a move or something?Is it normal to feel that nervous everytime i see him?please any advice im really confusedThanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Talk to him! If he doesn't like you than you can stop thinking about it. imho if he was all about it he would have gone up to you and said something and asked you questions so you didn't have to wonder. That being said sometimes it does work out when he doesn't make the first move. good luck to ya!
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (8 January 2011):
 Totally normal...you should be nervous, The fear only grows over time as you begin to realize the ultimate power they have over the male species. Trust your instincts!
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reader, sara'93  +, writes (8 January 2011):
hi, if i was you i wouldn't rush into things so that you'll start to feel comfortable around him. Try to be friends with him first so you can get to know one another, then make some steps forward! Hope i helped and g'luck! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): I liked a girl for 3 years. I eventually had to stay away from her because it was taking over my life. I couldn't do anything because I was just thinking about her all the time. And when I was any where near her I was too nervous to do anything at all. I'd just sit there, not even talking to my friends. So it's probably nothing to worry about too much. But you should tell him you like him that much. He'll probably really like that. And if he does like you then just relax. He won't care if you make a fool of yourself every once in a while. He certainly won't stop liking you. But if he does, I might suggest finding someone else.
Good luck :)
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