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writes:i have a big problem here goes i have been seein someone for a year and a half it has been a hard road cheating lying leaving hitting argueing every day but i am so in love with him and don't understand it i feel like i would die if i couldn't have him by my side the relationship is pure crap and the only time were happy is when were making love he has done some of the worst things to me imagineable but i love him in my heart it feels like a big waste of time but i can't stop myself i feel like i'm broken like there is something wrong with me so just the other day i got on a site and started talking to someone he said all the right things and told me he would be there for me a real genuine prince no joke but he lives in another country and sent me a pic of himself and i don't find him attractive i don't know what to do help please law the sas on me i need it straight Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Leave the first toad. Disregard the second toad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Hi!
I think the best thing here would be sort out your emotions first. The action says youre done with your current relationship and feel torn as a result. This is why as humans its important we keep our emotions grounded and let logic rise when it needs to. The man youre currently with sounds like trouble and a heartbreak... theres plenty of nice guys out there out of business so go look for one :) I sense youre done with this relationship and the only way to know for sure is to sit down and write out the things that are keeping you in the relationship. Weigh them out, make your decision, and proceed. Good luck.
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