A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am 15, female, and Bi. I have very strong feelings for my friend who is a girl, as in I think I am falling in love with her. We have been friends since last November and these past couple of months we have been hanging out and talking a lot. She is a naturaly touchy person but there's just something about her that makes me think she isn't completely straight. I have asked her before and she said "I don't know..I don't think I am". Anyway, I have told her that I really like her and she's okay with it. A few months ago my friend asked her if she liked me back and she said no. Now though she is always asking me to hang out. Everytime I stay the night at her house I always wake up to her cuddling with me. Like last night before we went to sleep she started cuddling with me, then in the middle of the night she got up (accidently woke me up) and then got back in the bed and cuddled with me. On Friday she stayed the night at my house and cuddled with me again. I told her about it and she said "When I was younger I would do that with my mom and plus it's comfortable". She said I am the only one she does that with though. I am also the only one she will cry infront of. she was trying to tell me something and I guess I gave her some kind of look with my eyes and she said "Sorry I forgot what I was saying cause I looked at your eyes and got lost in them..I know that sounds creepy" and then changed the subject. She is not someone who just comes out and says she likes someone, because she is shy when it comes to 'love' situations. Is this all normal...or is she accidentaly flirting...or what? Sorry, I know this is very long! Help is needed though, thanks.
View related questions:
best friend, flirt, shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, girlpearlwhirl  +, writes (22 January 2011):
This definitely sounds like more than a friendship. I think the safest thing for you to do is to try and set up as many potentially romantic situations for you two. I say potentially, I mean a situation that would be totally normal for 2 friends to be in but could also be easily turned into a romantic 'date' (e.g. hanging in a jacuzzi, going to the movies, going shopping and using the same changing room etc).
From there I think you should definitely wait for her to make the first move. Being turned down by her would be extremely embarrassing for both of you, damaging to your self-esteem and could ruin your friendship.
Good luck!
|
