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30-35,
*austens
writes:We are a really cute couple. We've been dating for a few months, but we've liked each other for a really long time. Background: I'm 20, she's 18.Anyway, it seems like when we hang out, we can never find anything to talk about. We kiss a lot, and that's always nice, but I really would like it if when we hung out we did other stuff, too. I'm not sure exactly what, but I just don't want to awkwardly walk around our campus anymore, just wondering what we should do next. It feels like being on a bad date sometimes.I feel like if I was emotionally in a better space I could handle the situation, but the awkwardness makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking, "We shouldn't be this way. Why is there never anything to do?"I read around this site and found that it's usually the girl asking what she should do about her moody boyfriend, and most people advise that she dump him. Well, I don't want to get dumped. I just want us to enjoy each other more.I want to put 100% effort into this relationship, but I just don't know how to resolve this intuitively. Does anybody know what I'm talking about? What have you done to remedy being moody and bored with your girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 I think that you both just need to do other things besides walking around and talking am sure there are plenty of activites for you both to do, go to the movies, go for dinner, go swimming, go bowling theres plenty of fun activities out there, it sounds to me like you both need to find out what you have in common its only early in the relationship yet so sometimes it can feel like you have nothing to say and there can be awkward moments. Are you both spending to much time together? Make sure that the both of you are still going out seperatley with friends this alone will give you both something to talk about when you are together.
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