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writes:Ok so me and this guy have been seeing each for about 3 weeks buy it's weird! I'm 25 and he is 34. He has a 15 year old daughter and is divorced! I don't have any children and have never been married. He and his ex have been divorced for 7 years. Ok so Halloween weekend we were at the same party and we had a great time and he said do you want to come back to my place and I said yes! But i told him I'm not going to have sex with him until I get to know him better and he said ok so we had an amazing night together and went to lunch the next day and made plans to meet up again that night so we met up had another great evening and I slept over again and we were so tired and drunk we just passed out so the next day he drove me back to my car and got my number and everything was cool! He texted me that night and we have been texting everyday since all day and all night last weekend and this weekend he had his daughter so no sleep over for us lol. Anyway it's just so confusing cause he says flirts and texts me all day and night but the other night we had plans to go to dinner and he canceled on me and he always does that but then he texts me all day and night and everytime he invited somewhere in the morning for that evening he always ends up canceling and then says I'm sorry my life is crazy. Well shit I've had enough of this cause it's like I know in the last three weeks you have had 2-3 hours to have dinner with me so what's the deal?? He says with work and with his daughter his life is crazy but we hang out at the same place and he brings his daughter there so like if you like wouldn't you think the wise thing to do would be invite me too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): He needs to give you better explanations than the ones he giving you. But bringing you along when he's with his daughter is a bit too soon for him I'd say.
Look something is up here.It's very easy to text and flirt over text, it requires very little effort and you can do it while doing something else.
Tell him he has to make more of an effort, and to not make plans if he can't keep them. If he does this to you again then it's time to ditch him because he's showing no consideration to you at all. If his life is that crazy then he shouldn't be dating you because he obviously doesn't have the time to make an effort.
Seriously it's only been 3 weeks and this guy has blown you off far too much. Either he steps up to the plate or you go. It's that simple. Being stood up and cancelled on is not nice and he's doing it far too much. It makes me wonder what his intentions are.
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