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I just can't help but feel that he may like the girls from his own country better!

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Question - (15 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lazedDonut writes:

I have been dating this amazing guy... and we were born on different countries. He has a different accent than me but his accent makes me drool! and I have a different accent as well... the thing is that... for some reason even if we are together now I cant help feeling insecure about girls from his native country, when we meet one I try to compare myself to her without noticing and I keep thinking that he could be missing out...and that I could be taking him away from what he deserves. We both speak the same native/ foreign languages but we do it on different accents.

Everytime i imitate his accent to amuse him and make him laugh, and he really likes him and sometimes will ask me to say something on his accent and then goes "awwwww"

I just can't help but feel that he may like the girls from his own country better, he has never said this..but I cant understand why im so insecure, or why im being silly... he says he likes me better than those girls, yet I still feel bad, why? what can i do?

thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010):

Have him back up those words with action, thats all u need for him to do. he needs to not just tell you but also show you you are not treated like the other girls. In fact, he needs to make you feel special. For some guys its a challenge, but for us guys with hearts its a piece of well this time of year? pumpkin pie. Good luck :)

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