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*obsuruncle
writes:Cupid.... Im a male 20 year old virgin student and kinda happy with my life and the momment.... for the last 5/6 years ive been single mostly but also been attracted to girls and guys.... (im not ugly, well i wouldnt say so, im not fat or anything)- just to clarify!As ive been single for a while... i think this hasnt help the confusion of the sexuality issues and the confusion regarding that! ive dated few girls during this time but was never realy attracted to them, and the girls i am attracted to never go for me.ive never dated a guy and i dont want too.... because the thing is i want to date women i love women but i dont know what the guy thing wont go! i cant see myself with guy or even doing anything with guys, ive only ever kissed a guy many years ago. so why am i still feeling like this!?and what does it mean and help would be great! this is the first time ive ever told anyone thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, bobsuruncle +, writes (16 November 2010):
bobsuruncle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for your answers it does help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): I agree with the other comment, It could mean that you are bisexual. But the thing is, is that if you say you are attracted to women I wouldn't be so sure about that. You should date a guy and then date a girl and find out which sex you like more. The cute needy pretty women or the agressive cute guys??? That is what you need to find out first before you decide on which sex is the best for you. And remember just because the girls you aren't attracted don't like you doesn't mean you should give up like that.There are probably a ton of girls wanting your heart right now. I say go out and date a low class girl who is at least decent and then a guy. Good luck!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Hi it could mean that you are bisexual but that your feelings are more towards woman than men, maybe you need to get it out of your system though. Are there any groups at your college for gays and bisexuals? Maybe you could join one of these as they will help make up your mind about who you are. And just remember there is nothing here for you to be ashamed of. goodluck.
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