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I don't want to lose our friendship, but now it is really awkward and I don't know what to do!

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Question - (15 November 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2010)
A female age 30-35, *pidermonkey writes:

Heyy i was wondering if you could help.

Recently i was talking to my boy bestie and teasing him about this girl that keeps on texting him and asking if he liked her coz it looked like she liked him. But i was just joking about it, then i asked if he liked any of our mutual friends and he said no, i said good coz they dont like you, like that. Well curiousity came up and he wanted to know how i knew that, and he wouldnt stop and i blurted out that girls talk and the convo started between us girls coz i use to like him in grade 11 and told them. (i didnt tell him that i still serectly like him) Then he freaked out and said why did you tell me this now, it happened ages ago and that he was going to get drunk to forget, then he went red in the face! ive txtd him and he replied once normally he'd txt more. i dont want to lose our friendship. but its awkard and i dont know what to do?

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A female reader, Spidermonkey  +, writes (20 November 2010):

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Spidermonkey agony auntthank you, you have helped me out so much with understanding it all. I wish you alot of happiness in your life. :) xo

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A female reader, WinnieThePoohRocks! Ireland +, writes (19 November 2010):

he therefor loves being along with you , breathing the same air as you .. he was trying to get close to you !

the only way to find out is meet up with him and just say it casually , ' do you like me ?' and if he says no ? just start laughin ! whatv'e you gotta loose !

you only live once so take as many risks as you can get ,cuz you'll only regret this stuff that you didnt do whhen ur olda ! xxx

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A female reader, Spidermonkey  +, writes (19 November 2010):

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Spidermonkey agony auntyea, ii dont want to ruin the friendship ayee, question i know you think he likes me but what does this mean, when were sitting watching tv he's sitting right next to me our arms/legs are touching (not holding) there's like no space between us just touching but not in a couple way does that make sence. sorry im just thinking back to everything thats happened & seeing things he's done like signals & stuff.

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A female reader, WinnieThePoohRocks! Ireland +, writes (18 November 2010):

AH there ya go ;)

awww !

but dont go out wt him , cuz if yee break up ur friendship wud be ruined ,, just get with him as in kissin !

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A female reader, Spidermonkey  +, writes (17 November 2010):

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Spidermonkey agony auntThank you for the help WinnieThePoohRocks, my other guys friends who i have asked all say the same thing, that he likes me (they've never met him, they just listen to things ive said about him) I did end up txting him & he responded more but he said something to me that made me curious & then he said i didnt want to tell anybody who i really liked for fear it would get out. then i asked who & he stopped txting me so i think i pushed a button. but thank you again. :)

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A female reader, WinnieThePoohRocks! Ireland +, writes (17 November 2010):

hee clearly liked you all this time and hes just annoyed you didnt tell him back then because you mit've bein able to work something out if ya get me ;) mwhahha .

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