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writes:Since I am new here, I will keep it simple. I know a girl for sometime now and we both certainly share a connection.(we enjoy each others company and often tease each other). However since our last meeting, I have asked her casually to go to a place once and she denied saying she has a party. Later on I sent a message asking her if she was ok since I hadn't heard from her. However she hasn't replied back since past few days. Maybe she was too busy but I am getting a feeling she might be avoiding me. How do I handle it here? I thought of sending her another message asking her indirectly if she was avoiding me since I cant see a reason why she would do that. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt does make sense not to come on needy by calling/messaging her again. Question is, for how long ? She does not have a boyfriend. If shes playing hard to get, its better I get back in touch, isn't it ? Kinda weird situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): Don't worry about it, she's probably just been busy. Let her text you back. Stay casual about this. If she texts fine, if she doesn't fine. You texted her already, no reply the ball is in her court.
If she is avoiding you for some reason you'll find out if she hasn't texted back. While you may have had a connection she could just be one of those people that comes and goes. There could be other reasons too. Either way you don't want to come off as needy or clingy. Just let it go, she got your text if she really gives a crap she'll contact you and if or when she does just act casual. No big deal type of thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): she might have a boyfriend and doesn't wanna hurt your feelings or she just likes u as a friend is she on facebook look it up there it might show she has one or maybe she jus like to play hard to get treat them mean to keep them kean
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