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writes:hey every1 !!! how's it goin?!!! im a 17 year old girl who has this 1 problem in her life.for almost a year,i loved this boy who seemed intersted in me too cause he was always staring at me and he tried to reach me so many times.but none of his ways worked cause im too shy.anyway,finally oneday we talked and i felt so happy and i thought like i was finally gonna be friends with him and that it might lead to something cause i heard he was willing to ask me out and he told his best friend that he loved me.then i heard the worst news ever,he moved away..he was forced and it was his parents decisions thats what i was told and its true.i hurt a lot for him,i cried myself to sleep cause i missed him so much and i couldnt contact him cause he's not really an internet boy and he dosent like chating that much.i had his number but i could never call him.i was told that he didnt come back or try to contact me cause he wanted to move on cause he got tired of trying!!!!afer a year away from me, he came back and i saw him again and the funny thing is he still stares at me like before!!i still love him though for a while i thought im finally moving on.maybe it seems crazy 4 u guys but its the truth.i dont know what to do? should i just help him this time n let him get close to me n who knows maybe he still has a thing for me or should i just let it go n move on?
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reader, muffy  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Hunny,I think you should try again.If he likes you then try.Him moving back kinda sounds like fate.Go for it.Don't be shy.Spark a convo with him,something interesting,and just be yourself.Make good friends and then see where it goes from there.If it doesn't work out then move on.Nature will take it's course.I hope it works out for you.If you need anything just let me know.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): ~GO FOR IT!~
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reader, rubyrose  +, writes (16 November 2010):
i had the same kind of thing when i was younger. i think there will always be that guy who will always have your heart, and i dont think it will ever be easy to forget him or move on (i still compare all guys to my guy). i think if deep down you know if you want to give it another try or if you're happy enough to leave the past as past.. its really your decision.. with me it got to a point where i realised i loved the idea of him more than i actually loved him (because i was too shy to actually get to know him) and circumstances allowed me to have some space from him, and eventually i was able to move on.. if you feel like you cant move on or may regret not giving it a try- then go for it! i wish you the best of luck, one of us deserves to get their dream guy..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 I say go for it but you need to get over your shyness first or you are never going to get him, because you being shy probably comes across to him like you are being ignorant and dont like him, so when you see him smile and ask him how he is. Ask him did he enjoy his time away and is he glad that he is back. goodluck
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