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writes:hii never have any luck with men and i really like this guy in my office. we say hello when we pass each other in the hallway but thats about it...we sit at opposite ends of the office, how can i get him to notice me and get chatting??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): Do you know what personality type you are based on the Myers-Briggs personality type? If I were you I would find out what personality you are and it is the center two that are most important for matching. If I were in your shoes I would look for someone with a matching personality type. You may keep having bad "luck" because you may be looking for the wrong type of guy. On a side not I am an INTJ so and intuitive thinker would be my best match.
Once you have the proper match selected then you can lightly flirt with the guy. A lot of times this involves eying him while maybe brushing your hair back or taking a necklace and putting it in your mouth. You could dress a little sexy and find an excuse to bend over in front of him if you feel the moment is right. Guys are usually visual so if you do these visual things you will usually catch his attention. If these things fail you could just ask if he would like to go out sometime. My take is you are an introvert so you would most likely feel uncomfortable doing the above things. Moving to extroversion though will help greatly in catching the man you select. Just select a man that is a match or it will end badly.
Also if you do these things and he refuses it could mean he already has a girlfriend or wife, he is gay, or he is not ready to start a relationship maybe due to heart ache. Don't take it personally if he does because there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Take it in small steps, go from saying hello to asking him how his day is and so on. Smile at him everytime you see him.
If he doesnt seem to take the hint then just pluck up your courage and ask him would he like to go out for coffee sometime, thats the only way you will get to know him. goodluck.
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