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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I reciently found out my guy best friend and myself like each other. One day we were on his bed and he just kind of told me. I knew I liked him for a while now, so I obviously said how I felt about him. He always says he really likes me alot and I even had my first kiss with him a while ago. Now here comes the confusing part I don't get. He claims he really likes me but he isn't ready for a relationship because he just got done with a bad breakup. Then his best friend says I can't date him because he's not over his ex yet. I used to like his best friend and his best friend doesn't want us going out I feel and is poisoning the guy I likes head and telling him not to date me. Before his best friend started saying such things I even asked my crush if he's over her and he said your helping me get over her and I'm glad were gunna go out. The guy I liked also sends mixed signales and it confuses me. We could be making out and stuff one moment and the next moment he's in this completly differnt mood and I feel like crying. I know I can trust him because he is the nicest most honest guy I know and I know he wouldn't waste my time stringing me along. Do I keep trying and wait tell he's ready to ask me out or give up and move on before I'm too attached? Please help! Signed, Hopelessly In Love.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Ok first of stop blaming his best friend, he is telling you the truth this guy is not over his ex right now, therefore that is the reason he doesnt want a relationship with you. He needs time to get over her and you probably are helping him achieve that by being there and being friendly and am sure that he does like you, but he cant help how he feels about his ex thats why his mood changes because he might be happy with you and wanting to move on and then he finds himself thinking about his ex again, which of course is going to confuse you. Ok so he is not stringing you along on purpose because am pretty sure he does like you but he has a lot of things to deal with here and therefore it would probably be best if you tried not to get your hopes up as he is just not ready to have a relationship yet while his heart is broken, be there fore him as a friend but dont expect anything else until he is ready and be careful that you dont get hurt in the process. Goodluck.
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