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writes:this question is mostly for men but women are welcome. Do men enjoy the first time they have sex unlike woman? or do they have some pain just like woman's pain when her hymen is being broken? i also want to know whether men like girls who are not virgin rather the virgins one?? do guys have pain when breaking someone's virgins given the force they have to applied?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 I dont know what you mean by saying women dont enjoy sex for the first time? I know I enjoyed my first time!
There is no 'pain' for men in the same way as there is for women - they dont have a hymen and it is not like something is being forced inside them like it is for women. However, if the girl they are having sex with is not very well lubricated, then it can hurt them to go inside her as either natural lubrication or an artificial lubricant makes it slippy which eases the penis in. Some men can also have problems with their foreskin when having sex for the first time, or even first few times, as sex can push the foreskin too far back and it can get trapped behind the head of the penis which is then painful to pull back to the right place. Obviously this is not such a problem if the man is circumcised.
As for whether men prefer virgins or not - most men do not mind. It does not hurt them to break a girl's hymen, in fact most of them would not notice until afterwards when they see the blood. And for a lot of virgin females, their hymen has already been broken without them knowing. Using tampons can break the hymen, and so can horse-riding, gymnastics and other sports. This does not mean the girl is not a virgin, it just means she has lost this bit of skin.
Some men like the idea of taking a woman's virginity because the girl is 'pure' and they like the idea of being the first one to have her. But this is not true for all men, and most men are happy to have sex with a girl regardless of whether she is a virgin or not. If they find the girl attractive, and like her - then chances are they will be happy to have sex with her and her virginity wont be a problem. Unless they are a religious man of course and want to wait until marriage to have sex - then obviously virginity will be very important!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Hi it really depends on the man, there is nothing that a man has to break in order to lose his virginity like a women so therefore technically it wont hurt unless he does something wrong. On a mans first time, he might enter at the wrong angle and then when he pushes in he might hurt himself doing this and this is quite common with guys on there first times as they arent sure what way they are meant to go in, but this would be about the only way men would have pain they wont have pain like a woman does.
not all men are the same so no one person can answer for the male population whether they prefer virgins or non virgins everyone is different and virginity shouldnt really matter its the person most guys fall for not there virginity.
No it doesnt hurt a man to take a girls virginity in fact if he knows what he is doing and its not his first time then it might actually feel better to him as she will be more tighter than normal. which is a good thing for a man.
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reader, Richard.D.Walters  +, writes (15 November 2010):
I enjoyed my first time having sex with a female, but every male is differnt. When a male first have sex and they are breaking their virginity they go through a sharp pain for a little while, but after the first time they never get the pain again.
If a male has to break a girls virginity, the male dosent feel any pain only the female does.
I beleive it does not matter if your a virgin or not. If he is attracted to you, then its either by your personality and other traits you have, but some males rather just have a virgin girl just so they can break them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): The first few times, actually, first few girls i had sex with, weren't very good experiences. I was too focused on breathing, moaning and thrusting like some superstud, and as a result, I did not cum. No, there was no pain. I "deflowered" one virgin, and she was tight, but there was no serious difficulty getting it in. I do remember her eyes widening though when I put it in.
My first love was the virgin I had, but I would prefer non-virgins, as they are more experienced. I also had the constant worry with my virgin GF that she would get curious to see what other guys were like, and sure enough, she split on me. I like women who have enough experience to not be tempted by every other guy, but not so much that we can't do anything new that she's never done before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): Ive never had the opportunity to have sex with a virgin but would certainly like to. I enjoyed my first time for many many reasons lol.
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reader, Noman Fayez  +, writes (15 November 2010):
Ans.1 yes, Ans.2 No, Ans.3 It depends on different persons. But I think maximum people prefer virgin. Ans.4 Actually no.
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