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writes:He's nice a hard worker student still lives at home. I've been giving my guy blowjobs for about 4 wks. I can't tell if he's enjoying it! He doesn't do anything. He sits or lays there with hands folded across chest eyes closed. Not a moan or anything. He cums because I swallow it. But is his behavior normal? I keep reading about guys thrashing and loud. Is that a myth? I ask him if I'm doing ok? What does he like? etc but he smiles and says I'm doing great. How can I make him crazy? We have only being going out since august. Taking it slow. I'm not ready for any kind of sex with him except oral. And even now this is becoming discouraging. Is he using me? I am still shy about him going down on me. But at least I'm vocal I really really like it. I want to trust that he likes me too...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): It varies person to person and time to time. My man is pretty vocal with moans, sighs and some talking as I give him head. He get's really verbal with 69, but it varies... I am pretty quiet when he goes down on me. He does not mind that I am, though I do sometimes cry out at the moment of orgasm when my peak is supreme from what he is doing. Men like it when women are vocal, but some are not as in tune to it. It varies....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): I'm quiet and I enjoy it.
Could I enjoy it more? Yes.
Would I be loud/crazy/etc then? Probably not.
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reader, alex74  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you are getting him off, he's enjoying it. My wife wishes I would be more vocal, but I'm very quiet and reserved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): No worries! If he says he's enjoying it, then believe him. My guy is quiet too. As a general rule, if he's cumming then he likes it. haha
But if you're still worried, talk to him about it. Ask him what you can do to make it better. Make it fun for him, too: tell him you want to experiment, and try some new things. You might discover something that will drive him wild!
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