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writes:iam 24 yrs old and my partner of 5 yrs is 45, we have two children together, however a week ago, i went to a party and kissed another guy, not a random a friend, ive never cheated before and although at the time it was amazing, i felt sooo guilty and was honest and told my partner about it. he has forgiven me and i know he must love me to do so, but i now cant stop thinking about this other guy, really feel theres somthing there, but obviously dont want my kids to cum from a broken family and dont want to know that ive hurt someone so much by finishing a relationship. what to do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, MissKorang!  +, writes (15 November 2010):
I'd say be careful. It may feel amazing because of the 'danger'. If you spent as much time with him as you do with your husband, you may not find it so 'amazing'. Put some spark back into your relationship, your man loves you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Well first of well done on your honesty to your partner that must have taken a lot of courage to do so good on you.
Ok so you need to ask yourself what is lacking in your current relationship that would make you want to think about another man, there must be something lacking for you to have these feelings.
Do you love your current partner and want to be with him? If you are unsure of this then children arent a good enough reason to stay with someone because it will only cause arguments and resentment. So you need to be sure if you want to be with your current partner.
If you do want to be with him then you need to try and add more excitment back in to the relationship, most people cheat on there partners because after having children the excitement gets lost in the relationship and they dont spend enough time on each other. Make arrangements that once a week you get a babysitter and go out with your partner. Let him wine and dine you and put a bit of spice back in to the bedroom.
Goodluck.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Just curious, how old was the guy you kissed?
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