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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex-boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago out of the blue, I asked him the reasons and he said he'd been thinking about us for 2 weeks and realized that he was unhappy but he never specified why, through a friend I also found out that he thinks I wont be good for him since we dont have the same career choice but for the last 2 years I have been going out of my way to support what he loves. We hardly ever faught and if we did it never lasted more than 20-30minutes of being angry at each other, we would always talk things out and work them out. I've tried having no contact with him but we've seen each other a couple of times and he talked to me plenty and seemed genuinly happy to see, he even flirted a little, when I left a party early he asked me where I'd gone twice (different days) since I didn't tell him the first time. I asked him recently if he'd thought of us getting back together and he said he's made his decision and sticking to his guns. There is also a girl that constantly follows him around and that he says is just like him, it hurts to think that this might be the reason or maybe I am just imagining things? In my heart I honestly feel that there is something that can be done and that a relationship like this can't end just like that. What do you guys think? Do you guys think there is still a chance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010):
I would say give him some time and space! but i would say that decisions don't happen over night and so bravely especially if u guys rarely fight! i hope i'm wrong but i think there's someone in the picture , not a girlfriend yet but probably a rebound!
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