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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm really confused right now. I have no idea who I want to choose. First, I have this guy whom I've known since high school, we're talking, and he's asking me out. Then, this jerk who really only wants me as his booty call is starting to act really differently. He's calling me more, trying to get closer to me, and he calls me his girl. Then, my ex, whom I broke up with in September is talking to me constantly trying to get back together with me. So far, all I'm doing is talking to these guys. I know the guy from high school is a good guy. We've been attracted to each other from the first time we saw each other. The second guy, who only used me as his booty call, confuses me the most. He's never actually promised anything, but his behavior has changed. I've been the other woman for so long, I don't know anything else. Lately I've been thinking of ending our arrangement, but he begs me to stay. I want to stay. But I want more as well. I want a real relationship. My ex, its fun to entertain his advances, but I can't take him seriously. I want something serious, but when a guy comes along that proposes a serious relationship, I either laugh it off, or ruin it somehow. I guess its safe to say i don't know how to be in a relationship, but I want to try. I don't know where to start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): The booty call guy is acting like booty call guys act when they are on the hunt. But no matter what they tell you it's still nothing but a booty call in the end.
Of course you probably love the idea of taming that guy and getting him to be with you for real. But that's exactly why he gets what he wants. Every girl takes a turn trying to tame him and the result is always the same. He gives off all the signs of wanting you for more than a booty call and then he waits for you to sleep with him trying to make him finally close the deal. Then he wins and never delivers the commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): I would say none of them... Be careful of the second guy... Give ur ex a chance though... Hear what hes gotta say...
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