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30-35,
*ichard.D.Walters
writes:okay so I told my gf about a problem befor and how this guy always comment her on facebook as she is my wifey, So I askd her about it and told her just to get rid of him on her facebook.But recently she added him back and I read a comment saying when you get back get at you lil scrappy ok with love xoxoxox mi amor.. (mi amor means my love)I love this girl but I think she took it to far now, I do not know what to do. Should I just call it off or let it go?It just hurts on how she would do that to me... So ideas on what to do?
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reader, Richard.D.Walters +, writes (15 November 2010):
Richard.D.Walters is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice :D
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 If it is really bothering you that much then sit her down and ask her again what is the story with him, if she has said to you before that she doesnt know who this guy is then yes i'l give it to you it is a bit dodgy that she would be writing to a stranger and saying things like that, from your original post i made an assumtion that it was a male that she knew and was friends with, if its a stranger then i guess thats different. Ask her if she doesnt no who he is then why is she telling him she loves him. Goodluck.
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reader, Richard.D.Walters +, writes (15 November 2010):
Richard.D.Walters is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah I know she has best friends, but this is diffent this male guy will get it in his mind that she is his wifey and it will make things difficult, its the fact that I asked her about it and she responded I dont know him. so yeah im over deployed to another country to see something like that is a big question. I know she writes to her friends but really they all live in differnt states, so writing to someone that lives in a differnt state and saying I love you and what not is a bit fishy to me. but I am mature I have not dated a girl for awhile so I will get use to it again...
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (15 November 2010):
so what exactly has she done to you then? am sorry but she is allowed to have male friends and i think you took it a step far by asking her to delete him from her facebook, this is childish, if you want to be in a mature and serious relationship then start acting mature, if you trust her then you shouldnt care that she is writing to her friends, she can have male friends that she loves you know and you cant stop her. You just need to be able to trust her and if you cant do that then there is no point to this relationship.
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