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writes: I'm 18 years old and bisexual. The problem is that whenever I'm with one gender, I end up missing the other like mad. For example, if I'm with a man, I miss women, and vice versa. I'm dating a beautiful woman who I care a lot about, and we have everything in common, but lately I've been absolutely craving some male attention. It's driving me crazy. I don't want to cheat on her, but at the same time it bothers me that I can get more sexual satisfaction fantasizing about having sex with a man, than I can with my own girl! Does this mean it's time to move on? I know that if I left her, I'd miss her and really regret it. Do I really have to sacrifice lust for love, and love for lust? :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks.
I just broke up with her......it was that, or end up hurting her even worse down the line.
I'm still a bit uncertain if from my perspective it was a great idea, but I didn't want to saddle her with my confusion.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Ok you need to sort your head out here and ask yourself what sort of attention are you looking for from a male? If it is sexual then i suggest that you finish things and try and sort your head out and figure out what you want.
Ask yourself what would you miss most about your girlfriend? Would it be the friendship or the intimacy? Because maybe you could break on good terms and still be friends while you clear your head.
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