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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I got back together but he dumped me the next day b/c he said 'Its too soon" and doesn't want to hurt me again. He said him and his ex may be over and not getting back together but he doesn't want to use me as a rebound. He claims he needs time and wants to date me again when he is ready. The same night, I received a text saying that 4 months ago he cheated on me with his friend. I'm a bit skeptical b.c his ex said this and didn't bother mentioning this until the day she found out we got back together.(He cheated on her 3 weeks ago). I confronted him and he said its a lie, he never cheated on me. I actually believe him b.c we were together most of the time.. its impossible for him to cheat.. but you never know. I've been talking to his ex and she told me he misses him a lot and still 'loves ' him. Now, I am confused.. specially because I don't know who could be telling the truth and b.c he has been hanging out with a 'friend' of his.. he evens spends the night at her place now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): With all respect, he cheated and he told you that he doesn't want to be with you. Such a pretty girl like you shouldn't be begging guys for love. Guys should be fighting for your love! Give yourself the place you deserve and let this one go and cry for what he lost. because you are worth a lot and he isn't. Chin up!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Think logically here. There are multiple reports of multiple cheatings. He still spends the night at a friend of his. He cheated on this other girl, and now you're hearing that he cheated on you. This guy is now wavering on getting back together with you.
He totally cheated. There is no such thing as "impossible", since the act of sex can take but 5 minutes, and you weren't with him 24/7.
You need to drop this serial cheater. He is incapable of cherishing you, only himself. He even knows that his character interferes with his relationships, which is why he dumped you again. He could very well have been blackmailed by this other person once he got back with you. Did you have sex the day you got back together? He could have just orchestrated the whole thing to get physical with you, and then dropped you with the whole song and dance.
Either way, drop him, his ex, his "friend", and look elsewhere.
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