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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was going out with my girlfriend for over 3 years. We started dating in college, and at the start I loved everything about our relationship: she was pretty, we got on very well together, never fought, we got on well with each others friends and we could talk to each other so easily and about pretty much anything. We had a great friendship. Things started to go a bit stale towards the end, we were finishing college and didn't know where our future was going. That scared me and I also started noticing other girls. I started seeing her as a just as friend and ended up cheating on her. I couldn't deal with the guilt and so ended it. She is now getting on very well making lots of new friends and trying lots of new things. But I know she still hasn't got over me and feels a bit depressed, I feel the same.Should I contact her to see how she is getting on?Its been nearly 5 months. She text me a month ago asking me do I miss her. I told her I did, she said it was up to me if I wanted to keep in contact. I'd like to know how she is and hopefully make up in some way how I broke her heart. Or should I just leave her alone to deal with it?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 well really it all depends on do you want to get back with her? If you do then contact her and ask her if she would like to keep in touch and take things slowely and get to know each other again but you need to be honest with her and tell her the reason you left was because you cheated on her tell her how you felt and why you done it.
On the other hand if you dont want to get back with her and you are just wanting to see how she is i think you are better just leaving her to it and the both of you can concentrate on getting over each other alone.
Goodluck.
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