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*issSamanthamary
writes:im in a long distance relationship and im supose to be moving in with him in about a week but now hes saying that his guy friends supose to be comeing down the weekend that im supose to move there and he wants me to wait an extra week before i go and im kinda upset about it but i dont no how to tell him , also we hardly ever talk anymore i talk to him like one or two times a day for like 10 mins and we didnt talk at all this weekend cuase i was out camping with my family and he went to a family baseball tourny (that he didnt even consider inviteing me to ) and then the first time i called him he got mad at me . things never used to be like this with me and him and i hate it , any sugestions on why you think we stopped talking as much ? , i feel like were not gonna make it and its only a week away so i dont wana give up any sugestions on how to fix things ? :( i honestly dont no what the problem is and i want things to go back . HELP :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): i am in a long distance relationship and we used to talk for hours a day and text back and forth all day, but for the past week we hardly text havent talked and his text keep getting shorter and shorter and now he seems to be too busy. im not sure how things got this way but it is not something i can deal with. im sure that their is a reason. i dont want to accuse him of seeing someone else but either way something isnt right. so im going to take what would be my own advice and let it go because really what is there to hold on to besides what we had in the past. since we are not where we were theres no sence in looking back.
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reader, missSamanthamary +, writes (14 June 2010):
missSamanthamary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou see the thing is tho , we havent been in a long distance relationship forever , when i met him he lived here and we were friends for two years before he even asked me out and then we were going out for a year and seen eachotehr litteraly everyday but he had to move away for work about 4 months ago and ever since he left i hear from him less and less , and i dont no whats happening its hard to go from seeing him everyday to barley talking at all each day .
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): Hey Hun
I was in a long distance relationship for over 5 years- and trust me- it aint worth the heart ache!!!
I wish i could get those years of my life back!!!
I was about 17 when I met him - I live in Australia and he in USA- he came and visited a few times and i went to where he lives once..
I thought he was the one for me and even tho ppl used to ask how i could trust him and how didnt i know he was seeing other girls, i always felt so strongly in my heart that hed never do that...
He started getting weird- like he was always busy, couldnt talk for long and the same thing happened to me- i was supposed to go see him this one time and he told me it wasnt a good time coz he had to do something with his family??? Stupid me beleived him.
Then one day i got an email from a girl sayin that she had been seeing him on and off for over a year and he was tellin her all the same things he was telling me.
It broke my heart, but at the same time- she set me free from one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
Without her i wouldve never have found out what was really going on- coz when u love somone so much you want to make things work. But if theyre not trying as much as you are- then they arent worth it.
Find somone u can see whenever.
Its gonna be hard saying goodbye.
but babe dont wait till your 23 to find out the hard way like me.
Goodluck and stay strong
there is life without this guy.
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