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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend for two years hurt my feelings real badly yesterday. I went to my best friend’s graduation party and he was there because they’re cousins. At first I didn’t’ mind him not being around me and he talked to me a little. I watched him play basketball with his family. Me and his brother hangout all the time and he treats me like a friend. So I was watching him play basketball and all of a sudden he left. I was really mad that he left and I don’t know why. It was probably because that was the last time I would ever see him again. I texted him saying that I was mad he didn’t say bye. He texted back saying I did say bye. I thought we were close friends and he doesn’t even say bye to me or try to find me in order to say bye. I’ve liked him for a long time and he was never interested and I know that but at least have the decency to act like I meant something to him. That the last two years meant nothing and I was a total stranger who he didn’t care about. I know that if we did go out that he would break my heart but I can’t tell my head or heart that. I feel the way I feel and I just can’t let it be. I need help so that I can move on and tell myself that I would be better without him? I try to tell him how I feel but he never answers and he knows that he hurt me. Maybe he doesn’t know what to say or he doesn’t care to reply. I feel like crap and don’t know what to do about it. How can I move on and go to college thinking that I will meet someone and not feel alone without the friend I liked? And was it childish for me to be mad at him for not saying bye? I was the one working so hard to keep the friendship and he didn’t care much about my efforts. I like him but he dissed me so I try being friends and it won’t work like I hoped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks and i feel so stupid!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Sorry kiddo but you've wasted your time and your heart on something was just not meant to be. Stay busy and try to keep your mind off him. Once you start school in the fall, you'll find yourself thinking less and less about him. I promise.
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