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male
age
30-35,
*alshie93
writes:A girl I fell out with badly 6 months ago and broke up with over December has recently said she hates me, and never wants anything to do with me etc to a mutual friend we share. She lives around an hour from me, and I was at once in love with her. Each month from when we fell out from being friends etc, has been painful to get over her, at times I don't think about her, and at other periods I cant bear the thought of what went wrong, regret what happened, regret what I said, regret giving her an ultimatum etc. So 6 months on, I have been given a place on a university conference and she is attending it also.I have no idea what I am to do, I have missed her for 6 months, I have tired my up most to apologise, I sent her a written letter to set myself aside from other boys, apologising for what I said to her and that I want us to be friends.She claims to her friends she wants nothing to do with me and she hates me, and I know I have to get over her, But I don't know how to, I cant convince myself she is being a bitch about everything and stuck up when I have literally given it everything to be just friends with her again after getting on so well.What am I to do when I see her 6 months on, on Thursday, am I to approach her, or what ?And based on your response, how do I get over her, I only ever experienced the good side of her in person and she then stopped talking after we argued once, and never replied to a single thing. I miss her so much and the thought of getting my wish to see her again but not being able to speak is killing me inside.
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (17 June 2010):
 i say you should forget her if she is acting paranoid.
you dont seem like a bad guy and you hurting terribily
but its time to move on and find someone who deserves your feelings
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