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anonymous
writes:I am not happily married. It is my wife. She has no interest in sex. She never touches me. She has no reaction to my foreplay. She never let me kiss her and has no desire for making love. I have not ever experienced a kiss in my life before. I believe in sex after marriage and monogamy. That means there would not be any other woman in my life. Her sexless behavior makes me very frustrated and I don't know what to do. I am tired of spending a loveless life. Please don't recommend any counseling as she never agrees to go to the one. How can I make her love me and seduce me? That looks far from possible. Please help.
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reader, low desire 7  +, writes (15 June 2010):
Have you ever heard of HSDD? Hyperactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Perhaps an appoint with the doctor to discuss her low desire levels?
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male
reader, baddogbj  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 THIS is why no sex before marriage is such a BAD idea. You have no idea what you are getting, you're buying a pig in a poke.
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reader, Sir-T  +, writes (14 June 2010):
I also believe in sex after marriage and monogamy and i am keeping myself for that... that said, issues like this bother me because i feel a lot of people lack tactics and practical solutions to their problems.
I can not help but imagine that your wife might either have an affair with someone else and become too emotionally attached or does not love you in which case you may or may not have had a hand.
you could do with gaining a little control over your family and wife. Sit her down and address this issue.
If she is not willing to co-operate then educate her on the possibility of ending the marriage. This might sound big but God who instituded the matrimonial home did not intend it this way.
Your wife is depriving you.... and this is something that could get you depressed and make you lose focus if you put too much attention into it. So don't.
p.s msg me if you want to.
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reader, fluffypuppy  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Doe she get annoyed or angry with any touching at all, like a hand on her shoulder, or just sexual stuff? If she gets annoyed with simple non-sexual touching, or even when you talk to her, maybe something outside of the marriage is wrong, like problems with a friend.If it's only sexual, maybe she's unhappy with her body, or perhaps even your body. It could even be something mental/chemical, like a lack of this or that hormone.
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