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*luffypuppy
writes:I'm 17, female and not interested in anything sexual, not even just kissing. I've never kissed or been kissed (or had sex), so could it just be lack of curiosity or is there something wrong? Should I be interested by this age like everyone else is or is it an individual thing and nothing to worry about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I just meant lack of interest, you might e attracted to others but have no desire to take things any further
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Check this post, it might help.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-wondering-if-im-asexual.html
At 17, I am not surprised that you are not sexual.. It may be hard to believe, but not everyone your age is interested in sex. It takes time for your body, mind and emotions to go from young girl into woman. There is no pressure for you to enter the sexual world, there is no hurry. If you still feel the same in a couple of years, then yes, come back and talk to us.
Many people at 17 are not sexual and that's what I think you are.. You are not interested in sexual things at the moment because of your age.
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reader, fluffypuppy +, writes (15 June 2010):
fluffypuppy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Casey.live - I just googled the term "asexual" and it says it means a lack of interest or lack of a sexual orientation.
Which of those meanings did you mean? I'm fairly sure I'm straight, but I'm just making sure because anything can happen..
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reader, src5404  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 You'll get there.Is it such a bad thing to not desire something when you're most likely too young and not ready for most things sexually anyway. Just think of it as not be tempted to do something you'll regret later. You may just not be ready for it but don't worry when the right person comes around most of your reserve will go out the window. Don't make it come too early.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): maybe you're a-sexual,,, although that seems a bit of a drastic assumption, so i'd just wait till you develop (mentally) and im sure you l be interested in the same way others are.
its nothing to worry about
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reader, TimmD +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Everybody is different. Not everybody develops the same sexually. At 17 I wouldn't worry. You're still young and all it takes is one guy to bring out feelings you never thought you had.
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