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*ellybeans20009
writes:Hi so I've been dating this guy..well technically we've gone out twice if that first meeting counts. Anyhow, lol he's a very new person in my life..still a stranger. The thing is he isn't from this country and will only be staying for four months.I haven't ever been in a relationship before and the previous guys that I've went on dates on were jerks or stupid boys who weren't ready for a relationship.This one is ready though and he is a rather nice guy so far. Since we're still getting to know each other, I feel like there's a ton of unanswered questions that need to be addressed. One of my biggest fears is that he'll find out my biggest flaws and leave me because of it after I've started to really trust him. I just can't stop thinking about it. It's driving me insane that something as important as this is only in development. I need to know and I need to know now, is what I tell myself. People around me tell me to cool it and stop worrying so much, but I can't help it. It's a part of my neurotic character. I can't seem to "enjoy the moment" when in any second it could blow up in my face and I'll wind up heartbroken.Any suggestions?
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reader, raiders +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Take it easy and give it a chance. In reality we all have flaws no one is perfect, and your flaws is what makes you,you. If he doesn't like your imperfection and leaves you for that than you will know he is not worth your time. You can't live life scare of what if they end up leaving you because the what if are not a sure thing.
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