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writes:Well after hearing my boyfriend of two years needed time away and then being ignored by him without a break up I did the honors because he was not the best boyfriend to begin with. I know its for the best but I don't understand why he couldn't do it? He's not a man and couldn't end it he's 23 and didn't have the guts to tell me its over so I got ignored. I'm having a tough time dealing with the fact he didn't have enough respect for me to talk about it or just end it. I am not sure how to handle the situation. How to get revenge maybe? They say the best kindc is to move on. What does everyone else think?
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (15 June 2010):
 It is said:"The best revenge is to live well" That means go on with your life, and live it well. Wasting your time and effort plotting to exact revenge from a weak, pathetic excuse of a man is not living well. Go live, have fun, make your life a beautiful thing and the revenge takes care of itself. You're doing wonderfully without the sot. See? You don't need him in your life to be happy and fulfilled. So go have at it! Live well. and forget him.
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reader, misswintereyes +, writes (15 June 2010):
I'm glad you're strong enough to break it off yourself. I personally wouldn't call for revenge though. I feel like it'd backfire. The best "revenge" you could have, is to be happy, whether that be on your own, or with someone new. In a backwards sort of way, that'd be the best sort of revenge, definitely, because you'd not be letting him dictate your happiness and your life any longer. And it sounds like for the way he treated you, you have a great reason to be happy, now that you're through with him. Hope this helps :)
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